The journey of life started from individual existence to the cult.
In later period of history, it started running back to the individuality, to cross the limit of individual identity and to identify ourselves as not humans but as forces, the chunks of energy condensed into complex systems of materials.
The systems or bodies, with mind and heart as we know them are mere tools to solve the complexity and reach the truth. Hence we must protect, nourish and enhance the tool into a sharper device of sensing the paths that would lead us to the truth, for the device cannot sense the crude, formless and shapelessness of naked truth.
This is the stage most of us are in. The age of physical and biological evolutions, though not over, is no more the center of growing future. The physical system of human body is advanced enough to start a newer adventure.
So has the era of cults and herds gone. The groups of individuals are required when the basic needs are to be fought for, like the freedom, safety and survival.
The groups still exist when men are learning the world of facts, numbers. When that stage is gone, comes the stage of thinking. Here the groups are loosely bound, and only interact while sharing the new findings of the individuals.
It is sheer joy of sharing and no more dependency. In this stage men find the basic principles that govern the ways of world. They learn the universal laws that have created the innumerable oceans of facts and numbers they have learnt in previous stage.
The journey beyond this point cannot be shared with the cult. Every visionary walked on it alone, whether he liked it or not. This was the part of journey which brought them closer to the ultimate truth. There is no verbal communication possible in this last journey. That is why we have no record of it, no set steps to walk on, and no guide lines to follow.
But yes, all these stages do not have sharp boundaries of start and end. This is the general direction in which all of us are moving. Every one is in different stage of the journey. So there will be no common code of conduct for every one.
Some need to survive in the cults and groups and some need their solitude. Some would just need sharing individuals and some might have reached beyond any interaction with the world.
Nothing is perfect for everything is perfect in different perspectives. The work done by an individual is not comparable to the work done by other individual, nor is it comparable to the work done by a group of individuals. Because each one of them has a different need. So "the perfect" for everyone differs in their respective space time frames.
Aha! And it took me such a long time to understand! I will work with others when I will face the need to do so. Or I won't if I don't have to.